My best friend Jim is in trouble. He needs a Mack Intervention. He hasn’t hooked up in over a year. He says he’s fed up with playing “the game”…and with the shitty luck he’s had, I can’t say I blame him. He’s been dumped, cheated on, and stood up more times than I can remember.
When I’m able to coax him to come out for a beer, he can’t even bring himself to talk to women. It’s like his spirit has been broken. He’s formed this attitude that all women are bitches—especially the good-looking ones—and he’d rather just avoid the pain.
I just need to get my buddy laid. It doesn’t need to be a hottie. Can you suggest some pickup tactics, or a place to take him, so that I can break him out of his slump?
- Billy, Connecticut
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Dean Cortez here with some Tactical advice…
As for your desire to get your pal laid, you’ve got good intentions but you wouldn’t really be doing him any favors. In his emotional state, a one-night stand or a “happy ending” at the massage parlor might be the last thing he needs.
What Jim needs to learn is the art of how to attract women. Once he does, he’ll be operating with an advantage instead of a disadvantage. Instead of letting women judge and reject him, he will be attracting more women into his life constantly.
M.A.C.K. Tactics is about arming men with a set of tools and skills that they can use forever. Because make no mistake: once you do enter into a relationship, it’s still important for you to remain a confident, masculine, attractive man to your girlfriend or wife. Once you start slipping back into your “old” ways, that’s when she’ll start to tune out, and all kinds of problems develop.
As the saying goes, “You can give a man a fish, and feed him for a day. Or, you can teach a man to fish and feed him for a lifetime.”
I’d have to say most guys don’t believe they have what it takes to attract women. This is the status quo among single men, even though they might be able to fake a certain level of confidence. These guys aren’t always misfits who are totally clueless and awkward around women. They could be that crew of well-dressed guys standing around at the nightclub, who look like they’re out to meet girls and make something happen tonight, but in reality they fully expect to go home alone. (Since that’s what happens every time they go out.)
I can understand why so many guys lose heart. I wouldna’t show up at my job every day with a great attitude if I hadn’t gotten a paycheck in months. For guys who don’t understand how to attract women, it becomes demoralizing. Hanging around in bars and clubs and trying to meet girls, and getting shot down, is always painful. Or, taking a girl on a date and trying to be nice and charming for two hours, and then never seeing her again because she’s just “too busy” to hang out…despite your repeated phone calls and emails.
Why should these guys continue to approach women and risk their self-esteem, or any more of their time and money, when there is seldom any reward?
The answer is to abandon your old ways, and your old mentality, and become a Mack. The Mack never operates from a position of fear or anxiety, because he understands how attraction works.
You can learn a bunch of different pickup lines or “routines” that will help break the ice with women. You can have a great sense of humor. You can even have the looks of a Chippendale dancer and drive a Ferrari. But when you don’t understand how the art of attraction works, women are never going to respond to you in a deep, powerful way.
Will the Chippendale get attention from women? Sure. Some women will eagerly hand over their phone numbers, go on dates with him, and perhaps sleep with him because he’s got those superficial qualities that women are taught to think are “attractive.”
But if he doesn’t understand how to project the key masculine qualities that women respond to on an instinctual feminine level, even a guy with looks and money is going to wind up alone and ignored, just like regular guys. You’d be surprised how many decent-looking, wealthy men are out there, struggling to find a quality woman who wants them for anything other than their money—because they don’t know how to stimulate real attraction in women, and they don’t know how to talk to women.
Consider the average guy. If you sat him down on his living room couch next to a beautiful woman, he’d be utterly clueless about how to make her feel attraction for him. Instead he will do exactly what she expects him to do.
He’ll be really nice and do things to please her, while hoping that if they spend enough time together, she’ll eventually realize that he’d be a great boyfriend.
Unfortunately, this will never happen. What happens is that within the first minute or two, she realizes that she is NOT into this guy, and she starts figuring out her “exit strategy” to get away from him.
The Mack, on the other hand, understands how to “build a bridge” with her through creative conversation, and then escalate the situation to a physical level. He does it in a smooth, subtle way so that it never feels rushed or forced. Everything that happens feel like a natural progression.
Most importantly, he does not operate from a position of scarcity and need. (“I don’t want to rush things and screw it up, because who knows when I’ll have another chance with a girl this hot?”)
Instead, he operates from a position of confidence and abundance. (“I have plenty of options, and women find me attractive. I’m enjoying getting to know this girl, so I’ll go with the flow and see if she’s right for me.”)
The good news is that there are proven methods, and an actual step-by-step process, for making women feel attraction for you. Take a look at MackTactics.com and you can download a free 80-page book called the S.W.A.T. Guide (Secret Weapons & Attraction Tactics) that will get you started on the right path.
There’s no sense in wasting another night, or any more of your money, playing “the game” the way every other guy does. If you’re ready to start dating the women you deserve—and the women who deserve you—it’s time to Go Tactical.