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Becoming an Alpha Male

January 19th, 2009 by nevilletcompton in flirting · No Comments

There are 5 proven techniques to make yourself into a high status alpha male. None of them are difficult. Most of them will make you life infinitely better in more ways than with women. All of them will require some work. It’s absolutely the best work you will ever do for yourself.

2) Work towards your goals. Do you have a goal in life? Do you have a dream? If you haven’t begun to make the effort to reach out for these, then now is the time. You only have one life. You deserve to have the life that you want. Make a plan on how to reach your goal or dream, then put that plan into action. Keep it up until you reach it.
5) Respect people. This should be a no-brainer, but some guys need reminding. Listen to what people are saying when they talk with you. Don’t ridicule or make fun of people. Be pleasant company. Don’t pick your nose, fart, scratch your privates, or pick out your underwear when talking with someone. Especially women. Use a little common sense and have some manners.

3) Take quality time for yourself. Think about some of the things that interest you. Do you like football? Then go out and play a game with some friends, or coach a junior team. Does rock climbing look like fun? Go find a gym that has a rock climbing wall and try it out for yourself. It may not be El Capitan in Yosemite, but it’s better than sitting on your butt watching TV or drinking your life away. Be involved with your life and do something your interested in. You’ll become a more interesting person.
1) Look good. First on the list for looking good is your physical body. If you’re out of shape and/or overweight begin to exercise. This will tone your body, make you physically healthier, and stronger. Then take a good look at your appearance. Check you hair, skin, nails and facial hair. Are you clean and neat? Do you need a new hairstyle or a trim/cut of you facial hair? Do you have body odor? These are basic, but can’t be overlooked. The same for your clothing. You don’t have to spend a fortune in clothes to be clean, neat, and reasonably stylish. Two or three pairs of pants and nice shirts will be a good start.

4) Be confident. This seems to be the area most guys have problems with. OK, here’s some steps to take to look confident until you ARE confident. When standing, stand straight and pull your shoulders back slightly. Smile. If you get rattled about something, take a deep breath and exhale slowly. Smile. Don’t fidget with your hands or feet. Smile. Begin to put these simple steps into action and you’ll be surprised at how confident you feel.


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Are You Not Experiencing Success With Women?

January 19th, 2009 by nevilletcompton in flirting · No Comments

I’ve been off for 3 days because I had to attend a seminar.Sorry If I kept you waiting.But,no worries,Im back with all my upcoming tips.

So,for todays topic,as you can see,its a pretty long title.(I dont know why,but Im having fun doing long titles nowadays,hee)
But I dont intend on making this a long post.(we hate long boring post dont we?)So lets cut the chase.Im gonna break it down for you.
‘Why Most Men Failed To Attract Women That They Want’
Its kinda frustating for guys when this happened :-You saw a girl you like(you want her),you get close to her,you throw yourself at her(sometimes literally),you treated her like shes your new Ferrari car you bought with your savings,you gave her what she wanted,you were there when shes down,crying..You were there by her side when she wanted a shopping buddy(even though you are traumatize by your last shopping experience there)…
..but in the end…when you pop the magic question that you’ve been keeping(like forever)…
…”Will you be my girl ?I love you”..
And you got that answer that shattered your dreams(about you and her on a honeymoon trip)…
…”Aww..thats sweet..I love you too…but…as a friend..So,lets be buddies okay.Im sorry..”…
(or any similiar version of that answer)
but all that answer meant the same thing-’Im not that attracted to you’
So,where did you do wrong?And most importantly how can you fix this?.Let me tell you whats wrong.Ill tell about how to fix that on my next post.
You did nothing wrong.Yes,you treated her right,like a queen.Yes you were there when she needs someone.But one thing you didnt do is to create enough ATTRACTION.
“What?I thought I did that already..I did lots of things for her..Whats wrong with that?”…
That question bring us to the next topic…
‘Blame Romantic Movies?’
Since we were young we were tought the wrong things by the media.We thought Shark are very dangerous and thats causes fear for us to swim in the sea(mostly in western countries).Thats the effect of films(like the famous Jaws),and also news.
But the reality is,men are the one that is killing all the sharks!
The same theory goes to dating.We thought that by doing the same thing like what the hero did in the movies will have the same effect in the real world.
We thought by playing it nice and doing super sweet things,and sacrifice a lot of things will get that girl attracted to you.But thats not always the case.
For example,we always saw in movies that a guy always pays everything when going on a date.Well,it work well for the hero in the movie but in real life…it sometimes can mean so many things…
Am I saying that guys should not be nice to girls?Be bad too them?
NO,thats not what Im trying to say.By being nice I mean,behaving like a nice guy.Being clingy,giving her everything and doing everything for her.
To girls,you are just too ‘easy’ and theres no challenge there.So by behaving like a nice guy,you ended up in her ‘my friends’ section.
So remember,dont always think that what you saw in media is real..most of it are just for fantasy.
Ill cover this topic more in my next post explaining what are the things that attracts woman.So,stay tune for that.

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Body Language

January 19th, 2009 by nevilletcompton in Uncategorized · No Comments

An estimated 67% to 93% of human communication (according to university researchers) is non-verbal, and your body language reveals your internal emotional state. Whether someone’s parents just died, or whether they just got promoted to CEO… you can tell by observing their body language.

So, as a man who tries to pick up and seduce women, you should be mindful of what you’re communicating non-verbally.

Body language consists of the following:

- Your movements. They should be nonchalant, as if you’re so fabulously successful that there’s rarely a reason for you to rush nor try to impress anybody. Move through the world doing what you want and assuming that others will follow.

- The displacement of your body. Your arms and legs should be spread out. Don’t be afraid to take up space.

- Your voice. It should have a calm, soothing, and commanding effect. Don’t speak too fast or strain your voice.

- Your face. Keep your facial muscles relaxed. Never tense your jaw, and only rarely should you frown or wrinkle your brow.

- Your shoulders. Keep them relaxed like they’d be if you just got a massage. Don’t raise them up like a nervous person.

I would even go as far as to say that you body language is more important than anything you say, because if your body language doesn’t match what you say, then you won’t succeed with women.

You see, if you tell a woman stories that convey your confidence, but at the same time you slump over and fold your arms, then you come across as fake.

I’ve picked up women before merely through the use of my body language. For example, a couple months ago I was at a coffee shop that I frequent, lounging on the couch, arms spread out, with my feet up on the table.

The mindset I had was that I felt so comfortable that it was as if I were in my home lounging on my own couch. It was as if I owned the coffee shop.

The net result was that a girl sitting near me put down her book and started engaging me in random small talk.

(Whenever an attractive girl you don’t know starts a random conversation with you, you should ALWAYS assume that she’s attracted to you. This is because women generally won’t risk the whole male-female dynamic, especially with a stranger, unless they feel attraction.)

The conversation went on for awhile, I got her number, called her that night, and a few days later we met and after several hours went to her place, where I spent the night. (We finally had sex in the morning.)

The bottom line though is that she became initially attracted to me and approached me because of my body language.

Now, of course body language isn’t enough. You also must have an internal alpha male mindset that’s consistent with your body language.

But make no mistake about it… if your body language conveys confidence, then your mood will also shift to become more confident. And have you ever noticed how when you walk with a spring in your step, you feel more upbeat?

Conversely, when you cast your eyes down and drag your feet, you feel depressed. So your mindset also follows the body language that you adopt.

So, in conclusion, be an alpha male with your mindset and your body language. Be in a woman’s personal space and be sexual and interested in her, but at the same time don’t be needy or desperate for her attention. Just be comfortable and enjoy yourself.

And when your body language conveys that, it means you’ll later be comfortable and enjoying yourself… with the woman.

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How To Attract Women

January 19th, 2009 by nevilletcompton in flirting · No Comments

There she is! I can’t believe my eyes! She’s the most perfect woman I’ve ever seen. But I’ll never get her.” Dude, you’re right. With an attitude like that, you’ll never even get near her. The question is, do you really want to meet her and get to know her? Do you want HER to get to know you?

I think Henry Ford, the automobile tycoon, said it best. “Whether you think you can, or you think you can’t, you’re right.”

If you’re in the ‘you can’t” category and want to get out, you MUST learn this – You Are In Control Of Your Choices.

YOU make the choice to approach a woman or to leave her sitting. YOU make the choice to be afraid of rejection or to go on in spite of that fear. YOU make the choice to get up and keep trying when you get no for an answer.

It’s just that easy, and just that hard. A key to help with this choice of a new lifestyle is to keep your thoughts on the present. There is no future to be afraid of. There is no past to regret. There is only now.

Now there is a beautiful woman you want to meet. Now she is here, near to you. Now is the opportune time to approach her. Now is the time to be happy that you have all these wonderful choices in front of you. Now is the time to have fun.

When you live life in NOW you’ll approach any and all women you find interesting. You’ll find when you make mistakes and she doesn’t respond favorably, all that is happening is that you have a learning moment in the NOW. Approaching women will become easier and eventually be a reflex reaction when you see a woman you want to meet.

NOW is the time. NOW is the place. NOW is your time. Choose NOW.

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